Taking charge or control of a romantic relationship needn't involve bossiness or bolshiness. It could be as simple as organizing something calm and quiet for you and the object of your affections to indulge in. Your playful side could emerge, especially if you realize love relationships are meant to be about two people wanting to enjoy being together – in whatever ways that's possible. Adopting a less serious attitude toward affairs of the heart reminds you of how much potential exists in a special love connection now.